About two years ago we adopted a GSD from our local no-kill shelter and named her Ciara. She's highly energetic and intelligent, and one of the things we both really enjoyed was playing ball in the house. She'd give me the ball, i'd roll it the length of the living room, she'd retrieve, etc. - and sometimes we'd chase each other around the room. Because she is so high energy, we decided to get her a playmate - this time a "rescued" GSD. Big mistake. While we love Abby dearly, although only six months older than Ciara, she is extremely low energy - with good reason: she has problems (i suspect neurological) with her back legs. The dogs get along great most of the time, there is absolutely no food aggression, and they take turns being dominant and submissive in their doggie games.
However, Abby has decided all the toys are HERS and will not let Ciara play ball with me, or even have one of the balls to chew on. How can i make Abby share, and allow me to play ball with BOTH dogs?
Also, Ciara loves to run around the perimeter of the yard, as though it were a race track. Abby will chase her for a bit, but cannot keep up and tires easily, at which point she will wait for Ciara to run past her and then nip her in the side. The first time she did this, we had to take Ciara to the vet because Abby had torn a chunk of flesh out of her! Fortunately, that has not happened since, but she still nips. We have been told there is nothing we can do about this, that it's up to Ciara to put a stop to it. Is this true?
Thanks so much for your help.