Barking at me when I come home

Posted by SandraK
Sep 3, 2008
I have a one-year old sheltie (Ranger) who has developed a serious barking problem over the past several months that is leading up to a crisis stage. A family member works nights and sleeps from noon till 8 pm. Unfortunately, when I get home from work at 5pm, Ranger will start to bark the minute I pull into the driveway. I have tried parking further down the street, tried to sneak up to the front door, but the minute he hears the key in the locks (we also have a deadbolt) he goes crazy. He runs a circle from the living room through the dining room into the kitchen and back to the living room, barking the entire time. Even when he hears me telling him to hush, to be quiet, he continues to bark. When I get inside, he will look straight at me and continue to bark and run.

This is equivelent to any of us who sleep nights being woken at 3 a.m. in the morning day after day after day. It is reaching a frustration point where I may be forced to give him up and I don't want to do that.

I have tried shock collars, citronella collars, lemon juice sprayed directly in his mouth, a flyswatter, putting my hand over his muzzle and firmly saying "no!" once I get inside, all to no avail. He doesn't even notice the various collars, and though he is scared of the flyswatter, it doesn't stop him from running and barking.

The local humane society suggested throwing a handful of dog treats past him to draw his attention away from the door when I come in but he's already at full running speed and doesn't even notice any treats.

We have a three year old black lab (Vader) who does not bark at all in these circumstances. They play together very well throughout the day, sometimes rough-housing with each other and sometimes just grooming each other both in the house and outside so he has an excellent camaraderie with Vader and there are plenty of chew toys and soft, cuddly toys. They sleep on mats on the floor in my bedroom at night. When outside in our fenced back yard, he will also start to bark randomly at nothing it seems. I've tried using the garden hose on him but he already knows to run for cover and hide amid the bushes and trees so it's difficult to reach him. Clearly, he knows the behavior is not acceptable.

He is friendly, loving and playful. He simply insists on barking when anyone comes into the house, even when it's someone who lives here and who he physically sees and recognizes. I've read all the previous messages on barking and am about ready to buy a super-soaper watergun for when I walk through the front door. I have tried having the family member who sleeps days put him into the kennel we have in the house when he is ready to go to sleep at noon, but he starts barking right away and doesn't stop at all then. There is no one else at home to help "throw a blanket" over him as I come through the door, so I don't know if it would help if I did it once I get inside, assuming I could catch him. Does anyone have any other suggestions? I've tried desensitizing him to knocking on the door, key turning in the locks, etc. by doing it repeatedly and he will look at me silently then like I'm the one who's crazy, but he seems to have no ability to link the sound and the message to be quiet then to when I actually come home.

Help!
Posted by Koby71
Sep 4, 2008
This must be really annoying for your family member trying to sleep, and frustrating for you too!

Have you tried distracting your Sheltie with a toy?

Or, what about leaving your dog's leash by the door, and as soon as you walk inside, grab the leash and the dog and go for a quick walk up the street and back. It probably won't stop the barking, but will hopefully mean that Ranger doesn't bother your sleeping family member quite so much
Posted by Annie
Sep 15, 2008
Hi there,
:rolleyes:imagine being a dog, waiting at home...listening for the sound of the car...here comes the party...action stations....she´s coming in the door...say HELLO HELLO!...run around in excitment...here she comes in the room, throwing toys, grabbing leashes, offering treats, hushing and shushing, opening doors, in garden, ....barking barking, water spraying!!!! wow!! I´d be pretty excited if my husband came home like that! I`d imagine my kids would go mental everyday when they heard his car!!

I´m joking with you, please don´t take offence, but when the dog is waiting for a party, positive or negative, then they get pretty excited.....

This problem can be fixed easily and in just a couple of days...less than a week. But maybe your shift worker could sleep somewhere else for a few days?

You just ignore your dog.

Simple.

But really really hard to do.

You come in the door, ignore, NO eye contact, No words to the dog, No recognition AT ALL.
You put down the shopping, maybe open the garden door if you have one. Un pack your shopping ( probably tripping over your loud friend!) and continue on with cooking dinner or whatever you do....

The dog will at first try to get your attention any way he can...then he may become a bit annoyed possible aggressive and frustrated, then he will wander around after you wondering what´s going on, then he will show you his ' I´m so sad and lonely ' eyes, then....eventually....he will lie down very unhappy. DON´T GREET HIM YET! Let him fully relax ( the first few times may be as long as 30 mins or more)

Then, when you are convinced that he is relaxed, call him quietly to you ( don´t go to him) for a nice treat.

Next day, same again, possible longer as he is really fighting this new plan.

Next day, probably shorter etc etc.

The idea is that when you come home, it is sooooo boring that it is not even worth him getting off the blanket to come and say hello.

The hard part is the pained eyes, and that you need to incorporate this technique Always. With my dog it is a quick 3 mins, she makes eye contact, wags her tail and sleeps again till i am ready to greet her.

I know it´s 'cute' when they are so happy to see you after work etc, but it is also quite stressful for a dog to listen for your car and get so worked up.

I hope something helps, and I hope I wasn´t too blunt and rude. Dogs are too cute for their own good
Annie
Posted by Annie
Sep 15, 2008
Hi again,
Ignoring also works for visitors. Ask all visitors to do it and you really need to police those pesky humans as they always break the rules
Then you can remove the dog, ask him to sit or leave, or you can also ignore. As it is the visitor only who is ignoring you can maybe also try a tecnique that you know works such as water etc. but the visitor should not greet the dog till he is calm. Again, warn the visitor of those ' sorry' eyes and persistant nuzzles!
Annie
Posted by puppylove
Sep 16, 2008
I agree 100% with Annie!

My 11 month old dachshund mix used to be quite the yapper when anyone came in the house. My b/f and my kids had to be trained with "no touch, no talk , no eye contact" upon coming into the house, no matter how much Keira tried to get their attention, she was completely ignored. Next everyday visitors were then trained. I have a sign posted outside my door that states "no touch, no talk, no eye contact, with the dog upon entering".

Give it a try, it may take a few days, but what do you have to lose????
Posted by SandraK
Sep 21, 2008
[QUOTE=Annie;2193]Hi there,
:rolleyes:imagine being a dog, waiting at home...listening for the sound of the car...here comes the party...action stations....she´s coming in the door...say HELLO HELLO!...run around in excitment...here she comes in the room, throwing toys, grabbing leashes, offering treats, hushing and shushing, opening doors, in garden, ....barking barking, water spraying!!!! wow!! I´d be pretty excited if my husband came home like that! I`d imagine my kids would go mental everyday when they heard his car!!

I´m joking with you, please don´t take offence, but when the dog is waiting for a party, positive or negative, then they get pretty excited.....

This problem can be fixed easily and in just a couple of days...less than a week. But maybe your shift worker could sleep somewhere else for a few days?

You just ignore your dog.

Simple.

But really really hard to do.

You come in the door, ignore, NO eye contact, No words to the dog, No recognition AT ALL.
You put down the shopping, maybe open the garden door if you have one. Un pack your shopping ( probably tripping over your loud friend!) and continue on with cooking dinner or whatever you do....

The dog will at first try to get your attention any way he can...then he may become a bit annoyed possible aggressive and frustrated, then he will wander around after you wondering what´s going on, then he will show you his ' I´m so sad and lonely ' eyes, then....eventually....he will lie down very unhappy. DON´T GREET HIM YET! Let him fully relax ( the first few times may be as long as 30 mins or more)

Then, when you are convinced that he is relaxed, call him quietly to you ( don´t go to him) for a nice treat.

Next day, same again, possible longer as he is really fighting this new plan.

Next day, probably shorter etc etc.

The idea is that when you come home, it is sooooo boring that it is not even worth him getting off the blanket to come and say hello.

The hard part is the pained eyes, and that you need to incorporate this technique Always. With my dog it is a quick 3 mins, she makes eye contact, wags her tail and sleeps again till i am ready to greet her.

I know it´s 'cute' when they are so happy to see you after work etc, but it is also quite stressful for a dog to listen for your car and get so worked up.

I hope something helps, and I hope I wasn´t too blunt and rude. Dogs are too cute for their own good
Annie[/QUOTE]


Thank you, Annie and others who have responded. It sounds like a reasonable solution. I had hoped our little sheltie would see how calm our big black labrador was and since he adores playing with him in so many other ways that maybe he'd catch on to the no bark approach the lab uses. No such luck. I wish our night worker had somewhere else to go for a few days but that is not possible. So I guess I will just warn him to expect noise for a few days and see if we can get this plan implemented and working. Thanks again for your suggestions. They sound like they should work.

Sandra
Posted by Annie
Sep 21, 2008
I really think it should work well....and quickly! just be strong and tough and stick to your guns. I don´t believe the noise will be any worse, or longer, but the stress for your dog in the first few days will be extreme. You may find that he needs a bit more love and reasurrance at other times
let me know how it does,
Annie