When my boyfriend and I moved in together a year and a half ago, he had had a cat (Penny) for about a year, and we soon adopted a dog (Kima, vizsla/lab mix, now 2.5 years old). My boyfriend let the dog into the house right after we got her, and she of course took off after Penny. Ever since, Penny has been deathly afraid of Kima. We ended up giving Penny to my boyfriend's parents for the last year and a half, soon after the bad introduction. Every time we visit their house with Kima, Penny goes and hides and hisses the entire time, even though Kima hasn't even really noticed/seen Penny since that first introduction. Penny is fine with my boyfriend's parents' two dogs -- they even play together when we're not around. She does have claws so she can defend herself if need be.
My boyfriend's parents don't want the cat anymore, so we need to take her back. I'm wondering what the best way to reintroduce them would be, considering Penny is already so afraid and just hides whenever Kima is even in the same house.
Kima has a high prey drive -- totally crazy about squirrels in the yard and on walks, chased Penny the one time, etc. She has been okay with neighbors' cats in the yard if they stand their ground and don't scamper off. It's that real prey drive that kicks in as soon as the animal starts to flee. So I don't know how to do this reintroduction without Penny just running off and making the situation worse!
We were planning to keep Penny confined to a bedroom in the same house for a while, so she can at least get used to the sound of Kima being around. I'm not excited to keep her litter box in our carpeted bedroom for long though! Also, holding her in our arms for an introduction (as one other poster had suggested in a similar thread) could be very hard since she has claws and freaks out when she sees Kima.
We've been very anxious about starting this introduction, but my boyfriend's parents are pressuring us to take Penny ASAP, so I'd really appreciate any help ya'll can give! I've already read through some similar posts at
http://kingdomofpets.com/members/community/dog-behavior-problems/Can-a-dorberman-and-a-cat-live-together-in-peace#comment-4322
and
http://kingdomofpets.com/members/community/dog-behavior-training/Dog-and-cat-introduction#comment-4986
Thanks!!