Hello!
I just signed up today for the book, and thought I would take advantage of the message boards to see if someone can help me out with my problem.
My wife and I have a 1 year old female golden retriever named Sydney. As most puppies go, she would grab something (rug, dish towel, etc.) and run through the house with it and start chewing on said item. Up until a month or so ago, we would be able to take the item away from her without any problem. On a few occasions recently, she has become extremely reluctant to give up something, and once snapped at my wife. In that case, it was a crumpled up piece of paper that she grabbed.
I've been working with our dog since with the drop/give command with things that she can have, and also with the dish towel, etc. She has done remarkably well since then, but today she grabbed a cat toy and wouldn't give it up. I had to carefully pry her mouth open to get the toy out, and when I did, she showed her teeth, but did not snap at me. I immediately held her down and growled at her, which seemed like it worked because she calmed down right away. I then put her in her kennel for a timeout.
I guess I'm wondering if anyone else has seen this type of behavor before, and what you used to solve it. Sydney is a generally obedient dog, but sometimes I can see that she sees herself as the alpha in the house. I will be the first to admit that I was responsible for that since I gave her more freedom when we first got her, and also did not follow through on corrections when I told her to "sit" or "stay". She has been and will continue to be in obedience classes so that she will realize that she is not in charge.
Thanks for any input that you may have to offer, and I look forward to being a part of this forum.
Mark