My dog put me in hospital

Posted by lindawaghorne
Jan 7, 2010
Hi
I hope someone can help me I AM DESPERATE. My loving springer spaniel has a behaviour problem. He is a 4 year old male. He attention seeks when i am on the phone or eating by stealing anything he can, he then comes up to me wagging his tail and acting as if he wants me to take it. 9 times out of 10 he will give it to me and i praise him. The problem is the other times he will suddenly turn from wagging his tail to attacking me, he done it so bad the other day that I ended up in hospital with a mangled hand and bites on my body. EVERYONE SAYS I MUST HAVE HIM PUT DOWN, but i can't. I suffer from depression and know that if I do I will not get over it. I have spoilt my dog and am always making a fuss of him.
I also have a 2 year old cocker spaniel bitch that is well behaved but chases children barking at them.
please please HELP.
Linda:mad:
Posted by kjd
Jan 7, 2010
Oh, Linda,

What a horrible thing to have happen! I hope your hand is OK now.

Who is "EVERYONE"?

Have you taken your dog to the vet to make sure he is healthy and physically sound? Is it possible he has some physical problem that is aggravated that 1 time out of 10 that he attacks?

If you have already done this, I have some other suggestions, but seeing the vet is number one.

Please let us know how you are doing,
kjd
Posted by lindawaghorne
Jan 7, 2010
hi
I did take my dog to the vets the last time he attacked me and he had blood test etc which showed up no problems.
I have also seen a behaviourist at the vets with no success.
The vet, the behaviourist and my family have all tryed to persuade me to have him put to sleep.
Linda
Posted by kjd
Jan 7, 2010
Linda,

I'm no vet, but can a blood test show that a dog has a mal-aligned spine or hip displasia? Has your vet x-rayed?

kjd
Posted by lindawaghorne
Jan 7, 2010
Hi kjd
The vet did not do an xray but I have tried throwing food a distance from him so I can retrieve the object he has stolen, he still guards what he has stolen and it is obvious that he will attack if I go near what he has which leads me to think it is not a physical problem but a aggression one.
Yesterday he had my tv controls I had to hide behind my kitchen door and was throwing food a distance from him through a crack in the door, he was retrieving the food but no way could I get near to get the tv controls if i had come out from behind the door he would of attacked me.
Posted by kjd
Jan 7, 2010
Linda,

This does not sound good at all!

There are two things you must keep in mind:

#1 [B]This is not your fault![/B]
You didn't make him into the dog he is.

#2 At what point will you be able to say "Enough is enough" and put him down?
You indicate you are the carer of your husband. What would you do if the dog attacked your husband? If he attacked a neighborhood child? If he slashed your face? Since you just asked about the dog, I am assuming the aggression has gotten worse over the years.

It is important for you to know the answer to that second question. My sister-in-law finally had to euthanize a dog she'd raised from a pup. It had always had a bad temperament, but when it deliberately bit her (though no blood was drawn), that was the point for her. She was in tears for weeks, but she knew she had done the right thing.

"Deliberate" is a word you have to define. I was deliberately bitten, and very badly, by a Great Dane. But the Dane, unknown to me, had been taken from an abusive situation. She thought I was about to strike and defended herself. I wouldn't even tell the people in the emergency room what kind of dog it was until they told me dogs can bite trainers and vets. It is assumed they do things that might cause good dogs to bite them so those bites don't count! (I was the assistant trainer in that class.)

Unfortunately, from what you say, your dog is deliberately biting you. The worst part is, you don't know when he will do it and when he'll let you have the object. This sounds to me like a bad temperament steadily getting worse.

Perhaps you can find someone like Cesar Milan, who insists he has never met a dog he cannot help.

Someone else on the forum may be able to give you some good suggestions. The only thing I can add to this is, if the dogs aren't neutered, neuter them.

I'm sorry I cannot give you an answer, Linda. Please keep #1 in mind and consider #2.

kjd
Posted by kjd
Jan 7, 2010
Dear Linda,

When considering that question: "When would I euthanize my dog," also think of illness and injury.

If your dog were hit by a car, or savaged by another dog, at what point would you let him go? If he had cancer? I just had to let my 7 year old GSD go because she had such a bad case of bloat her spleen had been removed and her stomach was dying off. That was horrible!

An earlier dog was euthanized at 10 because of cancer. This was probably the easiest decision because the vet and I had discussed the "when" as soon as we knew it was cancer. He operated twice. The third time I brought her in, he said her whole body was riddled. Then he said, "I always hate to do this. Especially at this time. (It was 4 days before Christmas.) And especially to this dog." You see, when the time came, we could concentrate on making it a happy death. The decision had been made while the dog was still coming home with me.

That is what I want you to be able to do. Not feeling forced into doing something because "everyone" tells you to do it. Not doing it because you are horrified at what the dog did or so angry at him. I want you to make an informed decision as to when you let a dog go -- whether for injury, disease, old age, or temperament. Then, when that time comes, you can mourn your dog's leaving you, but you will be able to say goodbye.


I hope some of this helps you, Linda. Having so recently lost Zoey, I understand how you feel. Please also talk with your therapist. He or she may be able to help you if you decide to euthanize.

However, I hope someone has a better answer for you,
kjd
Posted by crazycrayonmom
Jan 7, 2010
Sorry to hear about your problems, I've been in your exact situation. After one of my dogs got progressively worse (he had always been mildly aggressive) as he got older. He savaged my husband for no reason whatsoever. Our vet told us based on our dog's history and our description of the attack that it was probably senility setting in. There is treatment for it but the only way to know the meds aren't working is if he bites again. With a then 1 1/2 year old son I wasn't able to take the chance of another attack.

Sounds like you've tried everything, including a behaviorist. It's hard to make the choice to euthanize but sometimes, when you've tried everything else, you may have to. Best of luck with your pup. I'll be thinking of you! Let us know how you all are doing.
Posted by MaxHollyNoah
Jan 7, 2010
Hi lindawaghorne,

My heart is breaking as I read your story. I can tell you love your springer spaniel with all your heart.

However, kjd and crazycrayonmom's suggestions may be the right thing to do. My colleague told me just that he had to put his dog down since the Akita bit a friend of his kids in his face, that caused a couple of stiches.

May I ask one question though? Does your dog show aggression only when you (or anybody) tries to take a thing from him? How about when he doesn't have anything with him? Does he seem to enjoy just sitting or lying next to you and being petted?

If it is only when he is guarding something, I think there should be a hope to correct that specific behavior. Please let us know.
Posted by lindawaghorne
Jan 7, 2010
Hi Max hollynoah
Thanks for your reply
Yes my dog does only get aggressive when he is guarding something, the rest of the time he is very loving, he just wants to be made a fuss of, he sits's with me and love's to be told he is a good boy, he will do things like give me his paw and will go into down when i tell him so that I will tell him he is a good boy.
I blame myself for not training him properly so I am trying to do some alpha training with him hopefully this will make a difference.
I will not have him put to sleep until I have tryed everything I can, we don't have any children around so at least I dont have that worry, surely there must be something that will work.
Linda
Posted by MaxHollyNoah
Jan 7, 2010
Hi,

I am in the middle of my lunch break so I can not write a long message.
I am so glad to hear that your dog is a sweet dog unless he has a "resource" that he wants to guard!

He and you have created this silly game:

He steals things to get your attention when you are on the phone, etc.
Then, you try to take the thing back from him. This makes him think the thing is more valuable than he first thought and his guarding got escalated.

What you have to start immediately is:

1) Put away all things that you don't want him to get hold of, i.e. TV remote, etc.
2) When he steals something, don't throw a treat but IGNORE him totally(throwing treats made it even worse. He has learned that he can get a treat when he steals things)
3) Start with basic obedience training (20 mins everyday)
4) Walk him or play fetch, etc to make his day full of activities and fun!

I will write you more when I have time tonight.

Good luck
Posted by kjd
Jan 7, 2010
Linda,

I truly hope Max is right and that you can solve your problem. It does sound as if there might be light at the end of your tunnel!

One suggestion: keep a journal of what you are doing and how well it works. If you end up where you want to be, take this journal to the experts and suggest they try that the next time someone comes to them with your problem. (Don't worry, they have seen this problem before and they will see it again.) That way, you may save the life of more than your own dog.

BTW, is it possible to know the name of your dog? It seems so cold to just call him "your dog" or "the dog."

Good luck -- I will be following your journey,
kjd
Posted by lindawaghorne
Jan 7, 2010
Hi kjd
Thanks for all your relpies
my dog is called Cisco.
Posted by MaxHollyNoah
Jan 8, 2010
Hi Linda,

I found out that you had this problem with Cisco for quite a long time. I read your past posts again and I realized that I replied to you in Feb, March and July in 2009. Cisco's problem seems to be always the same issue - resource guarding aggression.

Have you done any of the trainings or corrections that were suggested by people including myself since Feb? If you have, have you noticed any changes in Cisco's behaviors?

You really need to be determined and consistant if you want to correct Cisco's aggression. It will take a lot of time since he was allowed to act like that for 4 years! That is a long time! It might take a good year or two to fix it and you and your husband (and any other people who interact with Cisco) need to make a commitment, otherwise he might be euthanized once he bites and draws blood of someone outside of your family, just like I wrote in my previous post.

Please take this really seriously. If you need more structured training programs the moderators of this forum will give you some but for now please revisit your past posts and our replies and let us know what you have done and how Cisco has changed. I really want to help you but it has to be YOU who needs to make the change in Cisco's behavior. Good luck
Posted by lindawaghorne
Jan 8, 2010
Hi kjd
I did do some of the things advised when I had this problem before but I must admit that when I got cisco to start giving me items for a swap I thought I had solved the problem to a certain extent, I thought that I was winning by swapping for a treat. I now realise I have made things worse. this advise of swapping was what the vet behaviourist told me to do. She thought his behaviour was out of fear and advised me not to be to strict with him as his fear could get worse.

I have come to the conclusion now that this was bad advise.
I had so much conficting advise before that I now know what i followed seemed to be working but has made the aggression so much worse.

Over the last few days I have been making cisco and Mitzi (my other dog)get of the furniture that my husband and I sit on and have only let them sit on the other one, they will get of with no problem, I am hand feeding them and only fuss them if I call them to me not if they comes demanding to be fussed. my husband is also following the new rules.

I want to implement all the alpha dog training but am not sure if I should do all of them at once or bring them in gradually.
[B][U]Could you advise me on this please.[/U][/B]
Thankyou for all your advise. I am now only folowing advise from this one place.
Linda
Posted by kjd
Jan 8, 2010
Hi, Linda,

I am not really too surprised the behavioralist blamed your problem on fear aggression. I suspect this is a popular diagnosis, since most people do not see fear as a cause of aggression.

[B]MaxNoahHolly is the one who has given you the best advice in this thread.[/B] I think you should follow what this person has told you.

From your previous posts, Cisco has become consistently more aggressive as 2009 wore on. The only successes you have had are temporary -- lots of exercise and trading treats.

[U]Lots of exercise:[/U] you have a springer and he is going to need lots of exercise. As one poster suggested, hire a teenager to walk him. But you walk him at least once a day.

[U]Trading treats:[/U] this is only a method for teaching a dog the "drop it" and "leave it" commands! It is not supposed to be a ploy for getting something back. By bribing Cisco, you were successful for a time, but, like any thief, once he knows you value it, he is upping the ante. Re-read what Max told you earlier in this thread and remove all the objects of contention. Max has some excellent instructions in the thread "Aggression with Bone" you might want to implement. Also re-visit Becks "protocol for possessive behavior" she sent you back in February. You are teaching "drop it" and "leave it" with items Cisco doesn't really care about.

[U]Rules:[/U] MaggiesMom suggested you come up with a list of rules you and your husband would enforce with the dogs. Do it! If you've ever watched the Victoria Stillwell or Cesar Milan shows, you will have noticed that all members of the household have to be consistent in the rules.

Linda, note the progression of your own posts: from minor worries, to being referred to specialists to being told euthanasia is the only answer. [B][I]If you don't do something, the authorities will euthanize Cisco [/I][/B]because he has bitten someone.

There is nothing new in my post. I have only summarized what advice others have given you. It is great advice. But it requires determination and consistency on your part. And part of that consistency is not stopping as soon as you feel you have a system to trick Cisco. It means continuing until he is rock solid in "leave it" and "drop it."

If your going to the hospital isn't scary enough; if the threat of a judge ordering Cisco destroyed isn't reason enough, let me give you another scenario: Cisco picks up an object (a box of rat poison, for example) that will kill him if he continues to keep it. This is going to be vitally important to you. Right now, Cisco would never give it back to you. Do you want to frantically throw treats as he gnaws on the poison -- watch him die in front of your eyes?

Please put these suggestions that have been given you into practice. Then let us know how Cisco is progressing.

kjd
Posted by MaxHollyNoah
Jan 9, 2010
Hi kjd and Linda,

kjd, thank you for supporting my suggestions to Linda.

>Trading treats: this is only a method for teaching a dog the "drop it" and "leave it" commands! It is not supposed to be a ploy for getting something back. By bribing Cisco, you were successful for a time, but, like any thief, once he knows you value it, he is upping the ante. Re-read what Max told you earlier in this thread and remove all the objects of contention. Max has some excellent instructions in the thread "Aggression with Bone" you might want to implement. Also re-visit Becks "protocol for possessive behavior" she sent you back in February. You are teaching "drop it" and "leave it" with items Cisco doesn't really care about.

Linda, I am afraid that you are confused with (1) exchanging a toy with a treat when training Cisco a "Drop it" command, and (2) throwing a treat to divert him from the object while you snatch it away. There is a huge difference and I would like to explain it:

(1) is to train Cisco to be obedient and in the mean time to gain his trust:
By practicing "Drop it" command using treats, he will learn "dropping something" will end up a good thing. When he masters this command he will drop it when told to "Drop it" with his own will not because he is threatened or forced.

(2) is almost to help losing Cisco's trust on you because you are tricking him. If you give a treat from your hand in exchange with the object it is OK since he knows what he gets in exchange with what he has now. You throw treats instead of giving him with your own hand because you don't trust him, you are afraid of him, there is no mutual trust in this action. Please understand that it will make your relationship worse and worse if you continue to do this.

If you are not comfortable taking objects from him, the best thing to do is not to let him get hold of things he is not supposed to, until you train him "Drop it" and to regain his trust on you.

Dogs are smart. They sense if you trust them or not. If you trust them, they will try to be trustworthy. Sorry I might sound too serious but I hope the above makes sense to you. I always try to be fair and sincere to my doggies; you cannot just ask for their unconditional love without trusting them.
Posted by lindawaghorne
Jan 9, 2010
Hi Maxhollynoah
Thankyou for your help, I really appreciate it & take it VERY seriously. I know I must do this training or lose cisco.
I am doing obedience training with Cisco now, Sit, stay, down etc. My problem teaching drop it and then giving him a treat is as soon as he see's I have a treat in my hand when he has something is that he attack's me as soon as he see's the treat, is there any other way to teach it.
The past 2 days I have been feeding Cisco straight after we have eaten, It is usually when I am eating or on the phone he steals things. Both yesterday and today he found something to take while we were eating, I completly ignored him and he kept trying to get my attention by whining, then when i fed him he left the item away from his bowl so I was able to pick up the object without him seeing me. Is this ok or am I still tricking him, I want to get this right.
Also should I bring in all all the alpha training rules at once or add more slowly.

Thankyou again for taking the time to help me.
Linda
Posted by MaxHollyNoah
Jan 10, 2010
Hi Linda,

I am so glad that you took Cisco's problem seriously and started training him.
As for the Alpha training, to be honest with you I don't use it myself because I have established my relationship with my dogs and foster dogs by different methods. However, it would be a good training if the dog shows some aggression and the owner does not have much experience with dogs. The reason it works, in my opinion, is it is well structured and easy to follow.

You should implement all the practices at once: eat before your dog, go out the door before your dog, not allowing your dog on the furniture, etc. Every one of the rules require the owner's commitment and consistency, along with basic obedience that your dog cooperate, for example,

1) In order to eat before you feed your dog, you will have to make your dog wait, or contain him somewhere - this can be a training of Wait by itself.

2) In order to go through the door first, you will have to make your dog wait - again this is a training of Wait.

3) Not allowing on the furniture, you will have to tell him to "Off" the furniture. He will have to actually get off at your command.

There are more of the Alpha training and some moderators have listed up all the things need to be done somewhere so I am not going through all of them.

Like this, if the owner starts to implement the Alpha training, not only the dog's life will be more structured but also the owner starts to pay more attention to the dog and to observe him more. This is the key of the training. First, you need to know your dog well. That's why kjd suggested earlier you should keep a journal. When you obeserve your dog's behaviors, you will see some kind of patterns. Every behavior of your dog has a reason, might not make sense to you but perfectly making sense to him. Once you start training your dog, your relationship with your dog will definitely improve and you will find it very fascinating (at least I do).

When you train your dog using treats, use a training pouch and don't hold a treat in your hand. If you have treats in your hand, the dog's attention goes to the treats and not to the command. Treats should be rewards, not bribes.

To answer your question "when i fed him he left the item away from his bowl so I was able to pick up the object without him seeing me. Is this ok or am I still tricking him, I want to get this right."

This is just fine because Cisco has lost interest in the object so he doesn't need to guard it any longer. You did a good job ignoring him although he whined to get your attention. Keep up with the good job
Posted by MaxHollyNoah
Jan 19, 2010
Hi Linda,

It has been only 10 days but I am wondering how things are going with you and Cisco. Do you see any sign of changes in his behavior?

Are you trying to keep things away from his reach?

Let us know if there is anything we can help you with.

Take care.