We have an Alaskan Malamute puppy, Shiloh. She is about 3 1/2 months old and is already huge (we are told she'll probably get up to around 135 lbs. but she's probably already about 50 lbs.). She has been a sweetheart since we got her at 7 weeks of age but suddenly she has developed what I thought was a protectiveness towards myself and my husband but I'm told it's actually "resource guarding". She growls when I get close to her as she eats, growls at strangers who want to pet her or get close to me, is very jealous of any attention I give to my beagle etc. Yesterday they got in quite a scuffle and silly me, tried to break it up and guess who got bit in the malay?
Basically my quandry is that I'm told we need to socialize her, such as taking her to the park to meet other dogs and people. I'm very concerned about doing that because I can't trust her at this point. I saw someone mention using a muzzle. Isn't a muzzle considered cruel? I don't want to get out there and have a bunch of other dog owners give me a hard time about muzzling her but at this point I can't think of any other way to accomplish socializing her that I can trust. Any other ideas? And finally, while I feel this is a case of resource guarding, how does one tell the difference between her protecting me vs. her guarding me as hers? I don't want to discourage protection but I do need to resolve this other behavior.