Spoiled Puppy

Posted by johnsover
Feb 9, 2009
I have an adorable 4 month old pug puppy that wants to be around me ALL the time.
Right now I'm working out of the house, so I am at home all day, but I will be working outside of the home within a couple of months so I need to get this figured out.
While I know that this is my fault for holding him and playing with him so much, I still need to do something about it.
He is very smart, he is already house broken for the most part, he knows sit, down, here, shakes hands, he rings a bell to go outside to potty, and he sleeps in a crate at night.
My problem is that he whines whenever I am not in the same room with him, even if my husband is in there with him, he will whine when I walk out of the room.
I have my kitchen blocked off so that he doesn't have free run of the house until I'm sure that he is 100% potty trained, but when I walk out of the kitchen into the next room he immediately starts whining. And when my husband and I take him riding in the car, if I run into the store for a minute, even if my husband stays in the car with him, he whines until I get back.
My next problem is that he sleeps in the crate great, no whining when I put him in there, but the second he wakes up in the morning (even if it is 4 a.m.) he starts whining as loud as he can and wakes everyone in the house up.

Sorry for the long post, but I really hope someone has some ideas.

Thanks for your help!
Posted by KOPsBecks
Feb 10, 2009
[B]Protocol for dogs with separation anxiety[/B]
NOTE: This is a default protocol, aspects about this can be altered to suit your individual cases

The following steps are intended to reassure the dogs that they do not need to fear being left alone. Remember that each dog is an individual and some dogs will like a smaller space to be confined to to feel secure in, while other dogs may panic in this situation, if your dog gets in a panic if crated - DONT DO IT, you should not force the dog to be crated, this will make the situation worse.

Step 1:
Teach your dog to "sit" and "stay", and not only to obey these commands but to look happy and relaxed while obeying these commands. Get to the point where during your "stay" command you can clap, hum, walk slightly away from your dog and then back again. When they are really getting the hang of it you may like to introduce some acitivities like picking up your car keys while your dog is in the "stay" position, or leaving the room? See how you go, if at any point your dog loses its relaxed and happy attitude, tone down the exercise a little and work at a level were they are relaxed. It is important to practice this at least twice a day. the harder you work the better progress you will see. It is important that while training your dog not to be anxious that they are not left home alone, take your dog to work, or arrange a dog sitter while training if possible. If the dog must be left home alone put into a confined space...see next step!

Step 2:
Crate the dog, or isolate in a small room whenever you are not home. make sure the dog has everything the require to be comfortable in this room, eg. bedding, water, toys and a biscuit. Take your dogs collar of if they are to be crated, to ensure they don't hook themselves onto the crate. This room/crate is an area the dog can feel safe. Do not use this room/crate as a punishment area - EVER.
Make sure the room/crate is brightly lit and warm and leave a tv or radio on while you are away as company. Some dogs like to be able to see the outside world, so set up the crate in front of a window or isolate to a room where they can see out the window.

Step 3:
Try and minimise your time away from the house and if you have to be at work all day then get someone to come and visit the dog.

Step 4:
As mentioned briefly in Step 1 we need to desensitise the dog to the cues of your departure. These may include keys rattling, doors opening, lights being switched off, make-up being put on etc. To desensitise your dog to these cues, perform the appropriate action, but do not leave the house after it, soon your dog will learn not to associate this action with your leaving. If you work hard at identifying the things that make your dog anxious and work hard to desensitise your dog to these it is achievable relatively quickly.

Step 5:
Leave your house for very short intervals of time initially and work up to longer periods, aiming to have a nice relaxed dog when you return. If your dog is worked up and anxious do not make a big fuss over it. It is important that when you return you do so in a calm and relaxed manner.

Step 6:
Most of these dogs require some kind of anti-anxiety medication to improve, most of these have very minimal side effects and tremendous benefits. Try all the above steps first and assess your dog's progress, at this point it may be identified that your dog needs a little help in relaxing, in which case consult with your local veterinarian.
Posted by KOPsBecks
Feb 10, 2009
Hey johnsover thanks for the post,

As you'll see above I have posted my protocol for separation anxiety, I believe your little puppy has the start of this problem, however, since we have cottoned on to it early hopefully we will be able to stop it in its tracks. I think you need to limit the amount of time that the puppy has access to you, and I also think that your husband can play an active role in helping fix the problem.

When you and your husband are home, you should leave the room, then get your husband to tell the pup to "sit" and if he does what he is told and is quiet then he gets praise and rewards from your husband, all this should take place while you are out of the room. Do not come back in the room if your pup is whining as he will then learn that if he whines you will come. The same is true for in the mornings in his crate, don't let him out until he is quiet, I know it is hard but otherwise he will think this is the correct way to behave.

Another important point to note is that when your pup starts whining you should tell him "NO!" it is important that he learn this command and if he obeys then reward him.

As I said above, put your pup in a separate room, or in his crate for periods during the day. This will not only teach him how to be away from you, but also you can reward him and let him out for play time if he is quiet.

With regards to my previous post, use some of these steps if you feel they may help retrain your pup, but more importantly keep this for later reference especially when you start not working from home anymore and you really may need to implement these changes then.

Hope this helps, good luck!

Becks
Posted by johnsover
Feb 10, 2009
Hi Becks,
Thanks for all of the tips, I'll get started on it right away. I agree that it needs to be nipped in the bud.
It is so hard not to spoil him since I am at home with him all day, but I figured that if I let it continue on, it will only be worse when I am gone all day.
Thanks again for your help, I really appreciate it.
-V
Posted by KOPsBecks
Feb 10, 2009
You can still spoil your puppy and allow him to have some time alone, just make your time together quality not quantity
I know its hard though, they're just so sweet when they're little!
Good luck with everything,

Becks