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Well, we have 4 dogs total in our house. I have 2 Shih Tzu's, Lolla 2 yrs & Domino 9yrs. My neice has an Akita, Tawny 2 yrs and a Shepard/Wolf-ish mix, Brooke 7yrs, she is the older Matriarch (?).
Domino is the only male and is an older guy, also the pack leader. Lil Lolla is the baby of them all, weighing only 9 lbs.
Here is my problem: Tawny has become the age of wanting to challenge Domino for pack leader. They have scraped a couple times for just about 2 mins before one of us has broken them up. I think Domino knows he would get hurt, so he wants nothing to do with it. Tawny however will stare him down, go out of her way to get closer to him with her hackles up. So, this leads to distension in their pack and in our house.
My husband and I are always disagreeing over the situation. He just puts the 2 bigger dogs in the back yard and leaves them there with no attention. Which is not fair to them being around family all their lives.
I know that dogs pick up body language from my hubby, because he gets all stressed out and over-reacts to the situation which does make all 4 nervous.
Question finally: who do I work with? where do I start? and outside of building a doghouse for hubby, how do I get him to relax?
PLEASE send help! We also have a 1 yr old baby in our home, she is a main concern too!