Hi, My husband and I bought a boxer last Wednesday. The breeder lied to us about several things. The most important lie he told us was that the puppy was almost 7 weeks old, however, we found out he's only 4 weeks old. We know he's too young to understand the entire house training process but we want to get started. We have been doing the crate training but I feel so guilty about it. The first few days we started off wrong. We let him walk the house freely which we are now trying to correct. We are doing the crate training and I let him out about every hour to eliminate in the backyard but he is still peeing in his crate. When I bring him back in I hate to immediately crate him so I let him sniff around for about 5 to 10 minutes. We let him out for about an hour in the evening to allow family time in doors and out doors. yet I still feel as though we are not bonding with him. He loves the pillow I allowed him to sleep on for the first few days in the family room but I dont want to leave it with him to pee on in the crate area. I guess my question is.....at what point will he begin to like the crate, he backs away from it whenever I try to encourage him to go in. I can't find one single treat that he enjoys so I am only giving him verbal praise. Am I wrong for taking him to his crate as soon as he comes in? How often should he be allowed out of his crate besides to eliminate? When I allow him to be free in the laundry room while I prepare breakfast or dinner he pees in there even after returning from out side.
One more thing I need to ask......the designated area in wayyyyy in the back yard due to my fear of going back there at night, I have allowed him to eliminate around the patio at night but I take him to the back during the daytime, however, he still finds his way to the patio area..how do I correct this. I know this is a lot but I am already tire and I am about ready to give up. My entire day consist of taking him outside and he doesnt apprears to be catching on at all. Thanks for any advice.